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By volta1228

Offending the Offenders and Vice Versa

Okay I was reading some things on Your Fave Is Problematic which is the first I've ever heard of them and probably won't be reading anything else from them (no offense to them, it’s just not my cup of tea), but it got me thinking on some things.

First, was my thought that some of the examples they gave I didn't find offensive at all. Now maybe this is because I don't fall into the category they seem to focus on which is the LGBTQ+ community, however, I like to think that since I'm so supportive of the community I would know what is offensive to them.

This brings me to my next thought. Some people just overreact. I mean that in the nicest way possible, but seriously? Come on, your acting like you can't take any form of hurt or criticism.

I agree that if you're offended by someone then you have the right to call the person out on it and then the person should apologize accordingly. But, you can't apologize for everything. It's just impossible. Plus, people aren't perfect.

My Debate on Capital Punishment class had a discussion in class yesterday (8/29/13) forming around human error. We had to write a small paragraph about it and this is what I wrote:

“Because people are human, there will always be errors. The problem with this natural tendency that occurs with people is the fact that those mistakes can be, literally, deadly. The errors that humans can’t control and can’t help but do, sometimes sends innocent people to death. When this happens, not only does someone get wrongly punished but the real offender gets away.”

 *Words that I want to point out/think are important are underlined.

All the statements I underlined in my small paragraph are important to this article that I am typing. “Always be errors, natural, tendency, humans can’t control, can’t help but do”, are all the important statements because it shows that humans are not perfect and that there will always be human error whether it is verbal or not.

I know that the paragraph deals with the death penalty but I can also apply it here. Because people are human, there will always be errors (like I said before). That includes in what we say and talk about. Hell, even people in the LGBTQ+ community insult each other. It's human nature that we can't escape from. You're always going to end up insulting someone just like you will always end up offended by someone. There's no avoiding it.

If you were to try and avoid it, then you might as well be mute (sorry, did I offend someone? If I did I'm truly sorry. *that’s not to be taken sarcastically either*) because either way you’re going to offend someone.

Me: I like blue.

Person: I hate blue and it offends me that you do.

Me: I’m sorry. I also like cats.

Person: Hate cats, way to offend me.

Me: I’m sorry again. What about macaroni salad?

Person: Jeez, that stuff is disgusting. You offend me by liking it.

Me: . . . (meanwhile the person just offended me by saying they hate the things I like)

That's my point with you can't avoid it. Just don't talk if you don't want to say something that will hurt someone.

I have one more example. Because I'm a Christian, I'm always, always offended when someone uses God's name in vain. Whether that's saying (and I feel awful just typing it) God, (continue sentence), god damn it, godforsaken, etc., I'm offended. Now, it's part of society that people say that. Do I feel offended every time I hear it out in public and on TV? Yes. Do I go around complaining about it and calling everyone I encounter out on it? No. Do I expect them to apologize for saying it? Hell no. I'm not stupid enough to think that (oops I might have offended someone by calling myself stupid. Sorry.) I go around everyday hearing people speak and say God's name in vain and you know what I do? I suck it up (and that's not saying others that are offended should just "suck it up". I'm just using the term for myself because that's what I chant over and over in my head whenever my depression gets the best of me). I ignore it and don't overreact. In fact, I have told my best friend who I consider a sister about me and not liking it, and though she tries not to say God's name in vain, she slips up sometimes because she's HUMAN. Sometimes she apologizes for the slip up and sometimes she doesn't because she doesn't realize her mistake. Do I call her out on it? No, I don't, because I know she's human and she's not perfect. I love her anyways.

So in the end, what I'm getting at here is that, you can't avoid it. We're all human, we all make mistakes, we all slip up and sometimes we don't realize it. If what was said really hurts you to the point where you really can't get over it, then call the person out on it. But just because a person says one bad thing, doesn't mean you have to call them out every time and expect an apology. People aren't perfect, the world isn't perfect, and I think it's about time we stop trying to make it this perfect place by having everyone dance around what they say when you’re not perfect to begin with.

Life is too short to dwell on these things. Live life the way you want to live and fuck everyone else.

**I’m sure I offended at least one person out there with this entry.

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Happy birthday to not only my brother but to Misha Collins!

Destiel Won!

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Omegle Chat

Never Show That People Bother You... What The Fuck Kind Of Conversation Did I Just Have?

.Im bored ,leave your numbers so I can text you?? by the way this isnt perverted, I hate those questions. I just need some new friends xD!

Stranger: nonononono

Stranger: My number is 911

You: Right

Stranger: Text me

You: Dido

Stranger: Dildo*

Stranger: L2Spell

You: Nope

Stranger: Wait

You: I don't even know what that means

Stranger: >I need some new friends xD

Stranger: >implying you have any friends at all

You: ...

Stranger: >Faggot kill yourself

You: Sorry, I'm not a homosexual

Stranger: Then go fuck a dude in his butt

You: but really you shouldn't say that

You: Haha, you're funny

Stranger: Then you can join the homos in the gay fairy land of fagville

You: I think I will. It sounds fun

Stranger: You won't no balls

You: What?

Stranger: You won't become a faggot faggot

Stranger: Be the biggest faggot you can be

You: Hey if I do whatever

You: God will love me no matter what

Stranger: Or atleast try to be a nigger

Stranger: Lol

Stranger: >implying God is real

You: God is real

Stranger: Wanna pray to Santa too?

You: Santa isn't real

Stranger: WHERE'S YOUR EASTER BUNNY NOW FAGGOT!?

Stranger: In your head where it should stay

You: The easter bunny isn't real either

Stranger: Much like God

You: No God is real

You: Have faith

Stranger: L2Spell newfriend

You: I don't know what L2Spell means

Stranger: L = learn

Stranger: 2 = to

Stranger: spell = spell

Stranger: Learn 2 spell

You: What did I spell wrong?

Stranger: Isn't

Stranger: You spelled it is

You: No I spelt it correctly

Stranger: >No God is real

Stranger: you spelled isn't as is

You: I'm looking back and I don't see that.

You: Copy and paste it

Stranger: >No God is real

Stranger: you are right

Stranger: There are no real Gods

You: Yes, God is real, I agree

You: There aren't god"s" but there is a God

Stranger: I already ate, grandma =/=I already ate grandma

You: Well that must have been awful for your poor grandmother

Stranger: No God is real =/= No, God is real

Stranger: Faggot, you agreed with me

You: Why do you keep repeating yourself?

Stranger: Holy sweet sister of Fuck you're dumb.

You: I suppose I am, so?

Stranger: Read a book, dickbutt

You: What's your point

Stranger: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

You: I read all the time.'

You: I've read many books in my life

You: I love to read

Stranger: All 7 years of it?

You: That and more

Stranger: 8?

You: More

You: I can assure you that I am an adult

Stranger: Well damn, maybe you should go back to 3rd Grade reading class

Stranger: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Stranger: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Stranger: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Stranger: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Stranger: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Stranger: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Stranger: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

Stranger: ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)

My next statement was going to be, "Maybe I should." :P I wanted to see how long the person would keep insulting me if I showed it didn't bother me. Apparently not long...

Why I “Ship” Dean/Castiel

            I’m going to tell you why exactly I “ship” Dean/Castiel. I’ll try to make this well thought out but there’s no guarantee. First and foremost, I would like to point out that these are just my thoughts and opinions and that everyone is allowed to believe what they want.

            I “ship” Dean/Castiel because they love each other. I’m not going to list all the reasons why (there’s plenty of Meta out there that covers that already) but to me, it’s true that they love each other. Now who knows whether that is a physical attraction or a psychological attraction or both, who knows? Maybe Dean is bisexual or bi-curious or maybe Dean is just attracted to Cas in the psychological way which, to me, would mean that he isn’t necessarily bisexual/bi-curious. I don’t practically like putting a label on the way Dean feels about Castiel because of this aspect. I think Dean is in love with Castiel the angel no matter what body the celestial energy (I avoided saying “he” because outside of a body, angels have no gender) is in. Bottom line, Dean loves Cas.

            Cas, the angel who is “indifferent to sexual orientation”, I believe has no physical attraction to Dean at all besides maybe thinking that he is beautiful because he’s one of God’s, his father, creations. I don’t think that stems into sexually attracted to him though. I think it’s purely, in Castiel’s perspective, a psychological attraction/love. And you know what? I think that’s the greatest love that is out there. I think it’s great if someone can love someone without paying attention to their looks and loves them fully by how they are as a person. Cas probably thinks Dean is the greatest person there could ever be walking the Earth and that is why he loves him. You can tell just by the way Castiel looks at Dean. I don’t know if that was Misha Collin’s and Jensen Ackle’s intention or not (I’m sure it wasn’t at first, especially since Castiel was only suppose to be in a few episodes) but later on maybe they did intend it like that. Probably not the way us shippers find it, but intentional all the while.

            So over all, I “ship” Dean/Castiel because they love each other whole heartedly in a psychological way (and maybe a physical way in Dean’s case but honestly I couldn’t care less about that). They will always be there for each other and, let’s face it, forgive each other no matter what (especially when it comes to Castiel forgiving Dean).

            Which brings me to what I want to see happen in the show (preferably season 9 but if they make it season 10 then I’m fine with waiting a little longer). I want to see Dean and Castiel tell each other that they love each other. Like any shipper out there, I want both characters to look each other in the eye and say “I love you.” That’s all I want. If they get into physical stuff, great, if they don’t, whatever, I’m satisfied with an “I love you.” I honestly couldn’t care less if we ever got a kiss out of the two of them or even a small little “hinted” (because let’s face it once again, unfortunately same sex love scenes never get as much attention as heterosexual ones do) sex scene out of the writers. I would love just as much as any fan girl out there if they did, but I wouldn’t flip out if they didn’t. I would be completely satisfied if Dean told Cas that he loves him and Cas said it back because I think that is what matters. I think that is their relationship. It’s not sex or anything physical, it’s just the overwhelming feeling of love.

            The way I picture it happening in season 9, however way they would lead up to it, it would be Castiel who would admit his love to Dean first. If you look back on the seasons, you’ll see clearly that it is Castiel who forms the bond way before Dean does. In fact, I would even go and say Dean didn’t start to feel anything towards Castiel in the aspect of love until after season 5, maybe even half way through season 6. I believe though, that Castiel started to form a kind of love for Dean when he rebelled from Heaven. It most likely wasn’t love but more like a fondness than anything else but still it formed into a love that not a lot of people have without looking at physical attributes as well.

            I know I keep going back to the physical aspect of the love and all but I think it’s important to do so because again, Cas, in my opinion, has no physical attraction to Dean what so ever (except for thinking he's beautiful). And to tie that into a physical love scene in the show, I actually think I would like it better if they didn’t show anything physical and just had the spoken confession (except hugs, they need more hugs). Not because I don’t want to see two men kissing, I have no problem with that at all, but because I think it fits their love a lot better because it’s not a physical kind of love. True it would be adorable to see Dean kiss Cas or Cas fumbling to kiss Dean (and I would die if they had Dean kiss Cas' temple or cheek), but I can live without it because their love it purely psychological. And again, I would be wholeheartedly, completely satisfied with an “I love you” and that’s it.

            That’s why I “ship” Dean/Castiel. Because their love is precious and goes beyond Earth, Heaven, Hell, and Purgatory.

Edit: I've been reading A LOT of others' metas on Supernatural and especially on Destiel. Because of this, I have changed my mind. All the readings of Destiel and how much they are in love has caused me to really want Dean and Castiel to kiss.

I know exactly how I want it to go down too. I want Cas to get severely hurt (even though it'll cause my poor heart to weep) and he's "dying". Dean doesn't know if he's going to make it plus he needs to keep him awake. In order to try and wake him, he kisses Cas on the lips. Afterwards, when Cas is all better, of course, he denies the whole thing and he has to sort through his emotions and once he does figure out he loves the guy, wonder if Cas loves him back.

After that, I'm not sure what I want to happen to get Dean to realize Cas loves him as well, but either way, eventually, they'll end up together and both of them will then kiss each other in a non-life-threatening situation.